September 2015

Toby & Ronja Sebastian – a love story…
From love at first kiss, to the conscious completion of our marriage, and opening of love


Thursday 17 September 2015

Dear friends, Toby’s and my marriage has just ended.

We have many close friends around us, and Toby and I are supporting each other.

I will do my best to explain things as clearly as possible, as […]

February 2015

January 2015

November 2014

Sex Tips: My 7 Favorite Kinds of Foreplay (part 1)


Confession time.

Do you ever have trouble “feeling it” or “getting in the mood”?

Do you sometimes really want to make love, but your body just isn’t responding?

You know what I’m talking about.

If you’re like most women, unless you’re juuuuust in the very beginning […]

October 2014

The Love-Whatever-Arises approach – the effortless path to loving the sh*it out of your ego

Photo by Bibbie Friman

I’ve been feeling the truth of this quite strongly lately.

Truth, meaning: not necessarily true in the absolute sense, but





In the field of personal development, the endless project of personal […]

September 2014

Self Love Superpowers with Ronja Venus & Layla Martin


Self love

Ahh… Does the word evoke joy?… happy buzzing?… indifference?… or disgust?

And, more importantly: do you love yourself?

Of course, the truly enlightened would probably claim that “there is no such thing as the Self”. And thus no need for self love.

But for […]

June 2014

May 2014

How to revel in your true sexual beauty (Ebook giveaway)


Dear woman,

We’re surrounded by sex! The world seems obsessed with it.
It’s advertized and spotlighted everywhere we go.

But I have a question for you…

With all of the movies, tips, magazine covers and porn out there…

Do you feel truly, deeply fulfilled from sex in that juicy, tingly […]

April 2014

If You Want To Change the World – Love a Woman, Love a Man


From a remote jungle palace in the Balinese mountains, I write to you today, dear one.

I’m one week into my Tao Tantric Arts Sacred Femininity training. So much is happening on the inside, that I choose to honor that flow – and […]

March 2014

February 2013