Update & Insights on life – 7 days after Toby left…

Update & Insights on life – 7 days after Toby left…

It’s been 7 days. So much is happening I don’t even know where to begin.

Feeling more and more at ease every day. And every now and then it hits me, and I cry and cry and cry.

Barely any story in it anymore. Just an ocean of tears that comes in waves…

and then… peace.


Perspective #1: Toby has left me and it’s so fucking sad what’s happening.

Perspective #2: Toby loved me completely for 1,5 years, gave me such a massively deep imprint of being LOVED…

… and then did exactly what was required to catalyse the process in me, which is now leading me to being FREE no matter what happens in my “external” reality.

Both perspectives are equally valid.

Neither one of them is true in any absolute sense.

One of them feels a zillion times more expansive, open and omg-there-are-infinite-possibilities-and-life-continues-to-be-amazing-no-matter-what.


Allowing both.

Feeling everything.

Suppressing nothing.

And from that freedom…

consciously choose.

I filmed this video yesterday morning, and it’s already gone viral on facebook since I posted it last night…

5:30 mins. Watch in HD.

Update & Insights on life – 7 days after Toby left…“The only thing dying here is that small part of me that believes that it will die if he’s not with me. And what remains in the aftermath of that is so fucking glorious that it’s worth everything. So no matter how this pans out, no matter what happens, life continues to be beautiful and I am grateful for all of this.”5:30 mins. (Watch in HD.)

Posted by Ronja Sebastian on Saturday, September 26, 2015


The only thing dying here is that small part of me that believes that it will die if he’s not with me.

And what remains in the aftermath of that is so fucking glorious that it’s worth everything.

So no matter how this pans out, no matter what happens, life continues to be beautiful and I am grateful for all of this.

Please share a comment below if this touched you in any way.

Thank you.

All my love + ocean waves and kisses from Biarritz, France,

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  1. Barbara September 27, 2015 at 11:48 am - Reply

    Thank you Ronja for lettting me see you personally with all this insight. Courageous warioress!

  2. Leonie September 27, 2015 at 8:52 pm - Reply

    YES. You’re the fucking party! Love it lady. ♥♥♥

  3. Linda September 27, 2015 at 10:28 pm - Reply

    Thank you, Ronja, for the beautiful way you have shared your clarity with all of us. There are many who will resonate with your truth because you touch on Universal Truths that each of us identify with. Your presentation, in your vulnerability is so very attractive and appreciated. You are giving your listeners permission to meet you in a place of TRUTH. What a sweet sweet gift. My prayer for you is that you will find peace in every moment and that your ability to remain clear and clean of any illusion that another completes you. You are the fucking party! Party hard and know that you are loved. ♥♥♥

  4. Nienke September 28, 2015 at 10:04 am - Reply

    ‘My most important relationship is with life itself’… This really touches me. It feels true and expansive and great. I’m happy for you and you inspire me! Big Kiss and all the best!

  5. Joy Rigel October 6, 2015 at 12:59 am - Reply

    Dear sister, we’ve never met but we seem to share such a similar path that I can help but feel we are anything but. Your radiance shines brightly even through your pain. First, I want to tell you, I acknowledge your pain. When we share love so deeply we make space for one another in our very being. The other becomes a part of us. It is painful when this part of us is suddenly cut off.

    Next, I’d like to say, it is beautiful and so important to be able to see the whole picture and to see the light in the darkness. You seem to be gifted with this understanding. I know you know this already so I am offering you a reminder – from my heart to yours. Please don’t let your bright side overshine your pain. It wants to be seen and felt, so it can be released. Blessings on this new journey. May it offer you fullness, sweetness, and the deepest truths of your heart.

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